The Sixth Stage of Grief: Hope in Christ
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The Sixth Stage of Grief: Hope in Christ

We often hear about the five stages of grief—denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance—first introduced by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross. While these stages can help us understand our emotions, they don’t follow a set order. Grief ebbs and flows; some days, we feel like we’ve moved forward, and other days, we find ourselves wrestling through the stages all over again.

But as believers, we have something more.

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Grateful for the Things I Wish Had Never Happened
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Grateful for the Things I Wish Had Never Happened

I wish this had never happened.

That was my first thought when I got the call — our car broke down unexpectedly, right in the middle of a normal weekday. The transmission gave out without warning while my wife was driving to work. It was stressful, sudden, and scary.

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Why Summer Is a Surprisingly Great Time to Start Counseling
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Why Summer Is a Surprisingly Great Time to Start Counseling

It’s incredible how quickly the seasons change. One day you're shoveling snow, and the next you're watching your kids run through the sprinkler or thinking about your next road trip. Summer tends to sneak up on us like that.

But here’s the thing: while summer is often seen as a time to disconnect from work, school, and routines, what if it’s also a time to reconnect? With yourself. With your spouse. With God.

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Then. Jesus. Wept
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Then. Jesus. Wept

When feeling the pain of loss and grief, especially during the holidays, these three words can be particularly comforting.

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The Power of Goals
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The Power of Goals

The importance of a goal is not necessarily in the goal itself, it is in the ability to face fear...

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Is it a sin to be anxious?
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Is it a sin to be anxious?

If Jesus said, “Do not be anxious about your life,” (Matthew 6:25) does that mean it’s a sin to be anxious?

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